Comments on: In Love With Love?

By: Guy

Guy — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 00:37:41 +0000

Great post. It’s remarkable how many people forget that a relationship requires effort. It actually takes work and commitment to build long-lasting love.

By: ella johnson

ella johnson — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 17:39:59 +0000

Yes, women can be quite demanding in their relationships, but that does not mean they don’t have the right to.
Some women really try, and when their men don’t appreciate or lend a hand, of course they react.
But I certainly don’t agree to the part about “get my boyfriend back”. He must be the “ex” for a reason.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 23 Nov 2010 02:30:55 +0000

I am having the same problem as you “Anonymous”. All of a sudden the passion is gone. He has cold feet and is questioning whether I am ‘the one’ for him? or if there might be someone better out there for him. I am planning to just keep it fun and surprise him with a gift. It sucks though. I don’t want to lose him. I am in love with him and I know he is the one for me. Just wish it was reciprocal and the passion was still the same as the first 4 months of the relationship.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 01 Nov 2010 11:38:29 +0000

I have been with him for nearly 2 years, and now the passion is gone- within a matter of a week everything has fizzled. We are not fighting, we are chatting, having sex, going out, cooking, walking the dog, the same things we’ve been doing for all this time. It just doesn’t feel the same, is it just me being like Jessica???? I don’t feel like he sees me anymore, I feel like part of the furniture even though he says the sweetest things and does everything he’s always done.

By: Over Mojitos

Over Mojitos — Sun, 26 Sep 2010 11:54:27 +0000

Yes, I think both men and women become addicted to the idea of falling in love and the feelings that come along with it. I would compare “express love” to express fast food. You can consume the food immediately after purchasing it but it has no re-heating ability. Opposed to home cooked food such as spaghetti which tastes even better the next day. Jessica’s relationships are likely shallow with no staying power. I think it results from a lack of self-awareness and a need for immediate gratification.

By: healy

healy — Thu, 23 Sep 2010 04:37:38 +0000

both of you are right. . .men really make me wanna kick there ass!!after all we have done, this our poor self still wanting them

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 17 Sep 2010 18:10:41 +0000

why is it always a woman’s fault if relationship goes wrong? if men like us for who we are we wouldnt have to ask them for any proof.. or do we just spoil them with our attention?

By: kesquibell

kesquibell — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 00:46:42 +0000

This is so true.

This sounds like every girl I know, myself included.

My question though is how does one prevent this? Do you just accept the lack of passion coming from the guy or is there somewhere else to focus your energies?