Comments on: Sex with Your Ex?

By: i need my girlfriend back

i need my girlfriend back — Mon, 18 Mar 2013 03:41:18 +0000

After all, you know her better than anyone else right now and it really should be easy to get your girlfriend back. In time, people will be drawn to you because they’ll see you as someone fun, funny, and cool to hang out with.

By: iamtubeprofiles

iamtubeprofiles — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 07:00:03 +0000

maybe it’s fine to have sex with your ex if you are not committed and if you still love each other.

By: twaye30

twaye30 — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 06:24:13 +0000

yeah i just reconnected with my ex from high school and found out that his ex girlfriend is still n his life. ouch! but ya know what i too am in a relationship with my child’s father which is not so great. i cheated with my ex because i felt like i needed that. My boyfriend really sucks and my ex had popped up back into my life so one thing just led to another. i hate that his ex grlfriend is still trying to get him back though! But, i’ll just have to figure out what i am going to do…either stay with my boyfriend(which sucks) or wait and see if my ex wants to pursue a relationship,or just move on completely.

By: FoxyLove

FoxyLove — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 13:47:32 +0000

Very good subject! Whether it is worth ot or not all depends on the perception of the one chosing to sleep with their ex. If they see it as inconsistent validation, then it’s probably not worth it, cause the morning after will just turn passion into senseless guilt. It would help if partners would be more responsible of their choices, so as once sleeping with an ex does happen, the next day you’ll wake up with a smile, saying “That was my choice, I stuck to it, I’m not going to regret it, so time to take your clothes and get along with your day, cause my mission has been accomplished”. That might’ve sounded harsh, but it’s probably the way your subconscious would have put it if that were the case.

By: Synergy and Life

Synergy and Life — Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:05:08 +0000

Sleeping with your ex can offer a level of security, comfort, and familiarity that a new relationship or partner may not afford. If those are the reasons for continuing a sexual relationship with someone you are no longer seeing romantically, it could be mutually beneficial, though not particularly “healthy”; however, if it is being done with the hopes of rekindling the love, or with someone who is currently in a relationship…the consequences could be detrimental.

By: Rick

Rick — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 11:12:55 +0000

The problem is it doesn’t get you where you want to go. The night of passion with the ex will remind you of the bad part about the relationship. Move on and start working new territory instead of walking a dead end trail.

By: love and feelings

love and feelings — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 17:27:51 +0000

great post…:)

By: headoverheels

headoverheels — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 02:13:49 +0000

Breaking up is hard but once you do it, you have to remove all the things about your ex that will remind you of him/her. It’s hard, but it works (and the sooner the better)! I actually believe that “removing” all the reminders of your previous relationship redirects your energy and makes it a bit harder to even consider sleeping with your ex again.

By: Single guy in texas

Single guy in texas — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 20:20:28 +0000

From many of my friends who sleep with their ex’s I think a lot of it has to do with comfort with being able to have sex with someone familiar that you trust. I mean they don’t have to worry about what he likes cause they already know. also the anxiety of “safe” sex is out the window. There are just so many reasons to do it and though guilt is there the next day, sometimes the physical need is way more important at the moment

By: Carrie

Carrie — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 12:28:07 +0000

Aside from being feel attractive with your ex, the guilt is there. And couple should have a total awareness on that. It is not easy to deal with that feeling. We should be happy with our present and not looking back on our ex good characteristics.