Treat her like a racehorse and she’ll never be a nag. Treat her like… but you get the idea. Here are a few of the secrets we deal with in our material. Enjoy!
TAKE A FEW MINUTES, LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE, TALK AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
Why won’t he listen to me?!
This is a complaint we hear from many, many women. So men, what does it mean for a man to listen to his wife?
Well, here are the major complaints that women have.
1. He doesn’t seem to hear what I’m saying.
2. He isn’t paying attention when I’m talking.
3. He interrupts and asks me questions.
4. He isn’t interested, or seems to be bored.
5. He’s impatient and wants me to quit talking.
6. He doesn’t want to talk and share his thoughts with me.
Yes, these are four of the most important secrets you can learn, BUT, (and I’m talking to you gentlemen) don’t think that if you have these four you have it all. These are what you need to get up and rolling. Don’t short circuit yourself, pick up the rest of our material.
“I love my husband and want to share things with him;
but he turns cold and refuses to listen or talk. Why?”
Consider the following if you are the non-talker and want to save your marriage. (If you are the talker, please feel free to give this to your loved one. No, don’t throw it at him/her… give it with a kiss and say, “I thought you might find this interesting.”)
* Maybe you are angry at someone; or are just angry by nature and that’s your comfort zone…
* Or you grew up in a home where they didn’t talk…
* Or perhaps your mate is an overbearing personality and you feel you can’t get your ideas across…
* Or maybe you just aren’t wired to talk…
* Or you always end up being put down in a discussion so don’t want to risk it anymore…
* Or you are feeling sorry for yourself…
* Or you wanted to marry someone else way back when and it didn’t happen so you
resent the one you are married to now…
* Or you don’t want to accept the responsibility of supplying another’s needs…
* Or you enjoy aggravating or hurting others (you have a mean streak)…
* Or you are punishing your spouse for something…
* Or you don’t want anyone invading your private world. You are selfish…