Written by Dr. Vance on 09 June 2010
TAKE A FEW MINUTES, LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE, TALK AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
Why won’t he listen to me?!
This is a complaint we hear from many, many women. So men, what does it mean for a man to listen to his wife?
Well, here are the major complaints that women have.
1. He doesn’t seem to hear what I’m saying.
2. He isn’t paying attention when I’m talking.
3. He interrupts and asks me questions.
4. He isn’t interested, or seems to be bored.
5. He’s impatient and wants me to quit talking.
6. He doesn’t want to talk and share his thoughts with me.
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Written by Dr. Vance on 07 June 2010
DON’T LEAVE HOME WITHOUT IT
Romance that is.
Here’s a great idea on how to begin to save your marriage, or make a great marriage even better.
Many couples face the problem of being separated because one has to go on a business trip or visit family. My wife and I found a great solution for making these trips an opportunity to reassure each other of our love.
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Written by Margaret Hardisty on 29 April 2010
OMINOUS SIGNS IN A MARRIAGE
When Nicole told Robert that she was leaving him, he was stunned. “Wh-what?” he asked, unable to respond in any other way.
“You heard me,” she said. “This marriage is over and nothing will save it.” She flounced out of the room and locked herself in their library. He sank into a chair outside in the hall and waited, trying to absorb what she had said. Leaving? Why? He loved this woman. He would never leave HER. Why would she leave him? A businessman, his Blackberry chimed repeatedly, telling him that he had appointments, but in his dismay, he barely heard the sound, and when his secretary called, trying to find him, he didn’t bother to answer her call.
All he could do was wait, as his mind whirled. After an hour she came out. “Why?” he asked, his voice weak and small. What she told him blew him away. He continued to sit there stunned, as she walked out and drove away.
When he woke up the next morning, he called me. We met for lunch and talked some more. As we went over what his wife had told him and I counseled him, things began to fall in place. There had been signs that he had missed all along the way. Read the rest of this entry »
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