It’s been said many ways:
Treat her like a racehorse and she’ll never be a nag. Treat her like… but you get the idea. Here are a few of the secrets we deal with in our material. Enjoy!
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DON’T RUIN A GOOD THING
This came from a lady in one of our seminar audiences:
If you constantly are receiving little compliments from your mate,
doesn’t it turn into more of a game than a true communication, causing
mistrust: never knowing if your partner really means what he is saying?<
What is “true communication?” Is it this? “You are saying nice things. Therefore, I must be suspicious because I have learned not to trust people. You couldn’t possibly be sincere.” The lady who wrote the question above possibly had been disillusioned by insincere people in her past. Or her husband cheated on her. Or she couldn’t get out of herself enough to really accept and love her husband fully or accept his love.
Possibly she would prefer her husband to say it like this: “I’ll say what I want when I want to, and if I have to put myself out to say what I don’t want to say, I am playing a game. Besides, when I do try, you don’t appreciate it, so I won’t say anything nice from now on.” Read the rest of this entry »
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